April 18, 2008
Waiter, There’s a crayon in my soup!
Posted by 24hourkitchen under Tips | Tags: children, dining, eating out, food, kids, Restaurants |[2] Comments
Remember the days when you were single and you vowed never to take your screaming brats out do dinner with you to annoy the other dinners? Well now here you are, with a child or two of your own and you’re tired of cooking your own meals – it’s time to venture out into the world of full service dinning once again! But how can you be one of the lucky parents with well mannered children who eat their mac n cheese and sip their chocolate milk and not one of the haggard couples staggering out the door with screaming tots in tow with unfinished meals left behind and angry customer scowling in their wake? The secrets lie in choices and preparation!
Picking the right place:
If the place doesn’t have a kids menu – don’t go there.
Your favorite sushi place doesn’t have a kids menu for a reason. My son’s favorite place to go is IHOP – maybe not my first choice for a date night with my husband but it’s a place to go where I know the whole family will have a lot of fun. Also O’Charley’s has a great kids eat for free menu!
Picking the right time:
It blows my mind to see parents walking in to a restaurant with young children at 8 o’clock at night. Again, this might be an ok adult dinner time, but for optimal child behavior, you might want to try 5:30 or 6:00. (Additionally you might get seated faster, a long wait time might tire out your child’s patients before they even hit the table!)
What to bring:
Snacks!
Don ‘t count on the restaurant having bread or crackers, bring your own snacks to keep the kids busy while they wait for their food.
Toys!
Special toys that are only played with when out to eat are great! Stickers and crayons are always good, toys and games that come in small kits works well!
Cups!
For small children I highly suggest brining their own sippy cups. The restaurant will gladly fill them for you and it will reduce stress and spillage!
Tips:
If you want to get out quickly do not order salads and apps – they slow down the meal.
Ask for the drinks to be brought out with the meal and not before to prevent spills.
If your kids are messy – TIP EVEN BETTER – you know what it’s like to clean that up!
If your kids are attention-intensive have the adults take turns eating and watching them so you can both enjoy your meal.
If a child has a melt down – take them out to the lobby or outside until they calm down.
If they start heading for a melt down, take a walk with them.
Don’t be afraid to take them out – taking them out teaches them how to behave in public and lets them get comfortable with it and lets them move on to more “adult” atmospheres. Some children are more “grown up” in nature than other naturally – you’ll just have to take your little ones out to see!
Feel Free to comment with additional tips!



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